Holy fucking cow. Yes I'm still reading this and that article just... well. Hm. *sigh* Indeed. Whoa ^100. Is it too late in the game for realisation? When one has thought she has sufficiently moved along and mature considerably. Ah it all makes sense this!

There's so much I can quote from this. This one thing though I thought was rather poignant.

"It was HER responsibility to rectify things with HIM. And he can't understand why she would have NO desire to have any contact with him, NO desire to have anything to do with him - after all he did for her, after what they had. After all, SHE is the one who did unforgivable things. He's so uncomfortable around her now, because of how much she hurt him."

*cracks up* Oh yes indeed this is the second chic bible. ROFL. Oh I love that.